What can I do but laugh? One if the GM got arrested and will not be able to be in the wedding. It's fine, not that big of a deal. (He's kind of bad news anyways and I'm selfishly relieved because he got in a fight with FBIL a few months ago. Ie bad blood) FH is so stressed out that the numbers aren't going to be even. I told him it really didn't matter and it's wayyy better than asking someone else now and hurting their feelings. Well he already asked another friend to be a groomsman. They're men so I don't feel like he would be upset like I would. The damage is done so there's no point in stressing i guess. I really just don't want this friends feelings to be hurt. Advice?