I had a meltdown recently. FH and I live in TX, but are both from OH. We decided to plan our wedding here, because this is home. We've booked our venue, photog and DJ. Unfortunately, we learned various family members would most likely not make it and it made me start thinking about what we really wanted from our wedding. As a result, we decided to move everything to Cleveland. We found a beautiful venue that's full-service and unique (honoring our vision for the wedding), but somewhat affordable on a Friday. My parents are checking out the venue tm and if it checks out, we'll be signing a contract!! We will lose some money in deposits, but overall think we will save. I had this nagging feeling from the beginning that a TX wedding was wrong, and now I'm just SO excited to get married in Cleveland. A little bummed that we're pushing our date to 5/23/14, but it'll be good. This all probably makes me a little crazy, but I thought I'd share as a reminder to follow your heart/gut.