So I'm having my wedding at my church, both the ceremony and reception. After the wedding I plan to write heartfelt thank you notes to the church employees who have worked with me on the wedding, since they aren't exactly a venue interested in reviews and tipping feels inappropriate.
However there is also a wonderful man who is working with me as basically my Day-Of coordinator as a volunteer position as part of the church's 'wedding guild'. He's constantly emailing with me about ceremony details and helping to arrange my bulletin, he'll be there for rehearsal, and he'll be at the church for the actual wedding doing everything from running the procession to making sure the reception is set up and handled smoothly. I don't feel like a Thank You note is sufficient for everything he's doing for us, but I also don't know him well enough to get him a personalized gift. What would you do?