I am a year and a half out, but I am in the process of starting a new job that will be 3 hrs of commute a day and I know things are going to get hectic. I'm using as much down time as possible to figure out big things (vendors) and then getting ideas for little things (wedding colors, favors, songs) just so later I'm not going nuts. I see so many people, myself included, getting the constant "Why are you worrying about this?" "Don't worry about it you have plenty of time" "Why are you sending out invites so soon!?"
Some questions I have are random thoughts I get that I'd rather ask about then forget about but, I am not losing sleep over it. Please stop telling me it's too soon! If you're honestly curious, just ask and I'll tell you why I'm doing something in advance but don't assume.
Anyone else out there a planner? How far ahead did you decide on things/or are planning on deciding? Would I be better off hiding my wedding date and asking away? hahaha