We just sent save the dates and paid a lot of the deposits to vendors... the venue is in between Ventura and Santa Barbara. The fire is approaching the venue according to the maps I'm finding. My plan B venue (friends parents vineyard, not their house) has for sure fully burned.
Of course lives and homes matter most but I'm getting really anxious. I don't think we can afford a different venue and I don't know if I could change location and keep my vendors. I feel petty for even thinking of my wedding at a time like this.
Anyone else deal with natural disasters in the planning phase?