So, today I went to the social security office to change my name. I waited hours, then they skipped my number, but eventually someone helped me. Except, he told me I can't change my name until I get my work authorization/Green Card. From the visa journey forum I know that some people run into problems but most people get their new card with their new name without problems. Yea well. Not me. I am sad now. Not only did I waste an entire day basically, I am still not officially Mrs. S. care to cheer me up? You're all invited to my pity party.