Hey guys, I am getting married in May 2020 and, I know, that's like a million years away. But I can't help but want to really start planning. I feel like I need to do this and book that. I had a bridesmaid dress day last weekend and while I was waiting for them to try dresses on, I couldn't help but think why am I doing this now, I have over a year to figure this out. I must look desperate. Anyone else like this too? Or maybe anyone has tips on things I can focus on now to feel productive with actually being productive, if that makes sense.