My family has gotten to the point of not just being insensitive, but blatantly rude (sometimes a little hateful) regarding wedding things. Such as we decided to have a wedding in Hawaii.. but before we were ready to tell people we just said simply “probably on the beach” when asked where we would have it. I was told by one family member “just go to a courthouse or Vegas then.. you don’t deserve a wedding if you gonna do something like that”. There has been many more instances of things like this, where I end up having to walk away and even cry sometimes. Did this ever happen to anyone else? What did you do? Even if it didn’t do you have any advice?
I’ve gotten to the point of just not speaking with certian family unless I HAVE to. Thanks!