I know a lot of BAMs include the OP talking about how their wedding day was the "best day of my life," and while I loved my wedding day, I'm not sure that I would classify it that way. My goal is to make this the most helpful and real BAM ever. For those who don't care about the specifics, I enumerated my advice at the end.
FH left for Florida a full week before the wedding for his brother's graduation. I stayed in Maryland until the Wednesday before the wedding to go to a friend's wedding and move my stuff to our apartment. Monday, while I in the middle of packing, I get a call from the DJ. He wants to talk about the wedding, which is great because I hadn't talked to him since September. We discuss a few things, and then I start to realize that he never got the updates to our DJ planning form. He explains that his business name changed and that's why he didn't get it. OK, I guess I can forward you the copy that I got sent.
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