So, I already had a bit if social navigation to do with my wedding (don't we all?). My father is transgender, and most of my family has cut her off. The no-contact is due to some other reasons, but they're *mostly* unrelated. There's a lot of bad-blood between her, my siblings and my mom. They sound downright childish in the way they're handling things - albeit the problems were real. Just the handling was bad.
Anyways, jump forward, and last night dad informed me that she will be detransitioning just in time for the wedding (due to medical concerns). If this follows trend, just mentiong dad will spark the non-stop bad talking. And this adds fuel to the "see we we were right, this was about attention" fire.
Selfishly, l'm already exhausted just thinking of March since I have all the social stuff leading up to the wedding. So the thought of this just exhausts me more.
Anyways, I'm not really expecting any advice but I'd be happy to hear any. I just needed to vent.