My DH wants an intimate renewal but his list is about 4 times mine. He wants his entire family invited even though half have blocked him on facebook due to politics. There are about 10 people from the family he has spoken to in 2 years. I only plan to invite a few friends and 2 siblings and my dad. Total 15 people with our 3 kids. He is upset over size and costs but how do I get through to him that he over invited for our renewal without making him feel horrible?