Hey everyone! So my fiancé and I are wanting to get married before he leaves for a long deployment. However, we don't want our families to find out as they would disapprove of a courthouse marriage. We aren't having our church ceremony until fall of 2020, so I was looking for advice on my name change... How much of a hassle is it going to be for me to change my last name after the church ceremony in 2020? Has anyone gone through this that can share their experience?? I know it's a bad idea to "hide" things from family, but we have to do what is best for us and our future.