We have a lot of guests who are not married....so we are doing both. We also will have several children, so we are adding something so they get to participate but without imposing on the adults. For the kids, we will be tossing little stuffed animals for the girls, and little soft footballs for the boys....then a traditional bouquet toss for the ladies and a garter around a football for the guys.
Go figure for me, this is the ONE thing FH wants to do. Uhhhh. Haha. I think its awkward and am not all that excited about it, but we do have a lot of single friends so I guess it will be ok. But I was thinking maybe I could have everyone stand up and throw the bouquet for luck instead of singles. And have FH just walk the garter over to a friend of ours who needs to propose to his longtime girlfriend and hand it to him.
I'm going all out with the bouquet toss and with the garter toss. I could careless what grandma is around (my grandmother is in her 70's, drinks, and gets up on the bars and dances with my step mom lol) I bought the garter in his favorite color. He's taking it off with his teeth too! But if neither of the catchers are comfortable doing there thing after then it's completely up to them