Guests using their cell phones during the ceremony.
Also, most of my FH's family haven't seen/talked to him in years and has never met me. I know that the reception is somewhat talking to guests, but my FH is a huge talker. Like he could have a 2 hour conversation with a random person...haha. I know that his family is going to want to catch up with him and probably ask me questions since I've never met them. I really want to enjoy our reception with minimal conversation so we can dance and have fun. So that fear is my FH talking the entire night instead of us enjoying the reception. To hopefully bring conversations to a minimum, I suggested a day-after breakfast with just his family so that they can get caught up on his life without talking over music and we can enjoy the reception.
Things not being set up like I want. I have taken pictures of what my centerpieces are supposed to look like and sent them to the two ladies that will be there early that morning just so that can check and make sure that they are done correctly lol
My biggest fear is drama at the wedding I have some guests who love to judge and start drama my mom and dad are also divorced and my dad and stepdad have never gotten along I also have some guests who are heavy drinkers so I’m afraid they will get to drunk and start something my last fear is FH family not having a good time only 8 family members are coming since they are from China this will be their first American wedding so I’m afraid they won’t understand anything or get bored and hate everything.
I would say weather, as our date is in December, but I feel like we can come up with a contingency plan.
But it's my fiancé's older brother I'm worried about really. They've never been close, but this past year has really shown us his true colors. Without spilling too much tea, he and his wife are divorcing and his threatening not to let their sons be a part of the wedding. This has obviously made my fiancé furious as those boys mean the world to him.
I gotta say that I’m trying to trust the good judgment of my family members so that they don’t turn our big day into a big scene due to all the recent drama in both families. However, I think my biggest fear is rain... Even though my ceremony and reception are indoors, just getting into the car and out of the car, and riding a convertible isn’t such a comfortable thing on a rainy day. And if it’s like everything in my life, when it rains, it pours, so God have mercy on us! My other fear is not having a cake... I don’t know why have a fixation on the cake, I’ve had nightmares about having a wedding without cake. I guess those are my biggest fears at this point.