I recently picked my Bridesmaids In November before Thanksgiving. I created a group me chat since not everyone has i phones . I have got some questions on if i want a bachelorette party to be a surprise or not and I just said I don't mind if It s a surprise, but just let me know the date lol. In addition, I have also had some questions from MTOH(best friend) of what is expected. I felt like just sending links to the group of what some of the roles are, but another part of me feels uncomfortable telling them what to do lol.
I have not gone bridal dress shopping at all. Just saving and I told them I plan to buy in Jan
Feb-March I would like to go Bridesmaid dress shopping
My mom and sister(MOH) have already got a date down and a place booked for a bridal shower. I haven't shared that yet with the Bridal party.
Do I also let them know what they should pay for?
I didnt want to bombard them as soon as they were picked
Any help and advice appreciated with what A bride is supposed/should/could do after they have picked their members