In my previous post, I was trying to be humorously helpful.
Over the years I've seen some minor problems escalate into major blowouts because a Bride and her MOH weren't reading the same series, let alone the same book; expectations were either 1) ridiculously high and could not be met by an earnest MOH or 2) reasonably attainable but the MOH couldn't be bothered; or personalities just clashed.
I came here looking for advice because the Co-MOH, whom I have tried repeatedly to talk to, has just blown me away with how much she doesn't seem to care about the bride.
What I found instead were a lot of horror stories from brides. While making me grateful that I don't have to deal with that, I was floored by how some of these MOHs behaved.
So I do what I do best - I wrote a snarky post.
That went as well as -insert cliche about failing here-
So I apologize for anyone offended by it. Much was edited out of the original piece due to space.
To be a good MOH, you just need love.