Liz

Ours is a second marriage.  A love story beginning on the internet, traveling through some rough waters, and ending up together for better or worse!  I am the kind of woman that likes a challenge and am not afraid to say it! In fact, my vows included... something to the effect "I love you even when I hate you" That caused quite a ruckus at the wedding! The first  reactions were, a "yeah", and a round of laughter, followed by weeks of people saying... "i love you but i hate you"! ...to finally his boss calling me and telling me he knows EXACTLY how I feel! We met on one of the dating websites. We talked a few times and met. I wasn't expecting too much, as I had "met" more than 150  of these men on those sites. A handful got more than a meeting and only 3 got more than a second meeting. After the first dive into dating in my 40's and the fear turned into intrigue, I began to have fun... the movie msut love dogs.. .that  was conservative in its representation of men and how these "meetings" go. Well, Ron showed up at a restaurant he knew I was going to. I had never met him and he was much more handsome than in his pictures in his profile. We started dating and went through some "kid" adventures. Stopped dating. Went through some reality checks, and then started dating again. I still have to bring him back to reality now andthen, but hey that's married life! We have 9 children between the two of us and we lucky to have all except two with us at the wedding. One of the reasons I almost didn't marry him is that he is a grandfather. MAKING ME A GRANDMOTHER!  ummm.. that was hard! I raised my kids not to have kids until I was ready to be a grandma,,, obviously mine listened better than his! Anyway, I now have a wonderful grandson and am happy to have him! We both have good and bad traits, but Ron is the only man I know who ca ncalm me when I am angry and comfort me when I am sad (sick? forget  it I fend for myself! LOL). People who know me know that is no easy task to take me to task! I know I made the right choice!