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Jai Butcher
Jai Butcher

Got married to my best friend on 5/16/20. We love fishing, working out, food, travelling, cats, and hanging out with close friends & family.

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Happily married 🎉

May 16, 2020

165days 22hrs


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In-law Complications
Jai Butcher in Family and Relationships, on September 7, 2020 at 9:33 PM

So, my husband and I have a strained relationship with his parents. They arent the easiest people to get along with. They are opinionated, can be rude, and have made it clear they don't like me. Their...

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Jai Butcher in Married Life, on June 19, 2020 at 2:41 PM

So today my husband and I got into a heated argument. Which really doesnt happen too often. It was over his friend. We recently married 5/16/20. His friend 'B' was invited to the wedding, and even...

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Got our wedding photos back!
Jai Butcher in Married Life, on May 22, 2020 at 9:02 PM

We recently got married 5/16/20 & our photographer sent some photos back. I wanted to share a few with all of you! This day was so much fun and my best advice would be to tell you all to focus on...

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Officially married!
Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on May 17, 2020 at 6:53 AM

Have a few pics from yesterdays small ceremony! Will he posting more pics later when we receive them from the photographer! Weather was perfect! Only people in attendance were: my parents, my...

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Is there a difference?
Jai Butcher in Married Life, on May 14, 2020 at 6:40 PM

Hey ladies! Quick question. I'm getting married Saturday and want to know, is there a difference between being engaged to being married? And what did you notice that changed? I'm excited, but want to...

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Lack of family support
Jai Butcher in Family and Relationships, on May 8, 2020 at 8:58 PM

So my FH and I were supposed to get married tomorrow. Because of the pandemic we decided to push it to next saturday 5/16 & have a small ceremony with 10 people and reception; the ceremony will be...

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Boudoir shoot
Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on April 27, 2020 at 8:04 PM

Hey ladies! What are some reputable sites for lingerie? Am doing a boudoir shoot for FH and am having a difficult time finding one. Usually I shop in store.. Any websites would be appreciated!

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Feeling hurt and angry
Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on April 24, 2020 at 7:14 PM

I dont really know how to react. My FH parents wont be coming to our mini wedding on May16th due to them feeling uncomfortable because of the virus. My parents will be there, his cousin and her gf,...

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Having a hard time
Jai Butcher in New Jersey Planning, on April 20, 2020 at 5:58 PM

Unfortunately in NJ, there is no end to this lockdown. My FH and I know an officiant who can marry us in her backyard (her backyard is a huge garden and she runs a wedding business and it looks really...

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Jai Butcher in Wedding Ceremony, on April 18, 2020 at 7:58 PM

Hey everyone! Quick question! Which website did you use to have a friend officiate your wedding? Our neighbor will do it, but we need a real website!

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Feeling Down
Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on April 10, 2020 at 1:47 PM

I really need to vent and I haven't vented to anyone about this. Last night my FH said some hurtful things to me due to him being under stress. A little backstory: our wedding date is May 9th and we...

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Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on April 1, 2020 at 5:51 PM

Hey everyone. I just need some support from WW! Just got a phone call that our honeymoon is being refunded (May 10th to 17th) due to COVID19. That makes me feel so crappy. We live in NJ and cant even...

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Jai Butcher in Do It Yourself, on March 29, 2020 at 6:54 PM

Hey everyone! I need some insight! My FH and I are cancelling our venue for May 9th since the president is keeping social distancing guidelines in effect til April 30th. But will still be getting...

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Positive news!
Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on March 23, 2020 at 7:11 PM

Got one bit of positive news today! The other not so much. If the ban is not lifted for the amount of people allowed at a wedding and if we dont want to postpone we can get our money back! Bad news,...

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Wedding sandals!
Jai Butcher in Wedding Attire, on March 15, 2020 at 2:26 PM

After looking around several stores over the past few weeks it took me until today in Boscovs to find the sandals for my wedding day. Only $30, and with my FH discount they were only...

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Bachelorette party
Jai Butcher in Parties and Events, on February 17, 2020 at 2:19 PM

Hey ladies! Would like some advice. My matron of honor and I are planning the bachelorette party; its Saturday march 21st. I bought a few things today for it, mainly decor and a few games. She asked...

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Friend staying over
Jai Butcher in Community Conversations, on January 18, 2020 at 7:46 PM

My FH went to college down in virginia and wants to invite one of his friends up to NJ where we live to go to his bachelor party. I'm fine with that. Only thing is, the guy will have to drive 3 hours...

Jai Butcher, Jan 20, 2020 18 198
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Engagement photos came back!
Jai Butcher in Parties and Events, on December 8, 2019 at 9:12 PM

Recently I posted engagement photos that came off my phone. I got the professional photos back a few days ago and love them!

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Engagement photos at Longwood Gardens
Jai Butcher in Parties and Events, on November 30, 2019 at 1:49 PM

Got a few sneak peeks today from the photographer for our engagement session at Longwood Gardens. We had so much fun. Can't wait til 5.9.2020. #FutureMrsButcher

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Found my wedding dress!
Jai Butcher in Wedding Attire, on December 1, 2019 at 12:45 PM

got a great black Friday deal! This was originally $649, but was 1/2 off so I got this for $325! In love with this!

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