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Chinese dresses...again...ugh
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on October 23, 2014 at 5:16 PM

So, as a means of getting out of actually going to a store and looking for a dress my mother purchased a Chinese dress online. I saw the picture, it looked fine, if she was happy with it I was happy...

GrayCatVintage, Oct 23, 2014 7 18
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If family elders leave your wedding in a large group - everyone else will too
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on October 19, 2014 at 6:43 PM

Oh man. I attended two weddings yesterday and in BOTH cases all the elders got up and abruptly left after the cake was cut...and everyone else followed suit within minutes. At the first wedding they...

Staci, Oct 19, 2014 22 153
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Do I need "props" for my engagement session?
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on October 11, 2014 at 3:19 PM

I plan on e-mailing my photographer tomorrow to make sure we are still on for our engagement session a week from Sunday. I plan on using some of these pictures to make save the date cards. My question...

TexasBeThyFrontier, Oct 11, 2014 15 307
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Spinoff: How are you getting your wedding hoard to your venue?
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on October 4, 2014 at 12:28 PM

As the totes keep piling up I am asking myself how in the hell am I going to get all this to the venue? I can take some items down the night before but for the clean up it will all need to go all at...

MelRay101214, Oct 4, 2014 13 5
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Is 25 minutes from the venue too far for people to drive to a hotel?
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on October 3, 2014 at 7:14 PM

I will be having several people fly or drive into Indianapolis for the wedding. There is an excellent hotel located 12 minutes from the airport and I do believe they will pick up guests via shuttle...

annakay511, Oct 3, 2014 10 10
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Flower appointment at Kroger - How it went
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on October 3, 2014 at 1:19 PM

I figured now would be the best time to get a quote for flowers since I am a year out. I made my appointment and brought a picture of a 13 stem arrangement from the FiftyFlowers website. After the...

GrayCatVintage, Oct 3, 2014 2 1,944
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I have to provide a "roped off area" for the bar...suggestions?
GrayCatVintage in Do It Yourself, on September 29, 2014 at 3:27 PM

Our caterer is providing the bartender. We must provide a skirted buffet table in front and a small table for ice and beer cans in the back. Simple enough - I am buying linens and the venue has the...

ashley, Oct 3, 2014 13 102
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Who else is taking a second job just for the wedding?
GrayCatVintage in Do It Yourself, on September 29, 2014 at 7:14 PM

I worked for myself for almost two years selling vintage items online. Sales dipped this summer which forced me to get an 8-5 job. This is actually great because it will be a steady paycheck that will...

Regina, Oct 1, 2014 19 8
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2015 Brides: PLEASE double check with vendors if you are booking them early...
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 30, 2014 at 1:36 PM

Very early in the year I had a tasting appointment with the baker. The person we met with said it was so early, we could just wait to make the deposit. In March, we saw them at a bridal show and again...

Monana, Sep 30, 2014 14 5
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Legwork the morning of
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 29, 2014 at 10:58 AM

My venue is about an hour and 10 minutes from my house. What I think I am going to do is get room blocks in the town where the venue is so the groomsmen can stay down there the night before and the...

DisneyNut, Sep 29, 2014 7 11
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Caterer, DJ, and Photobooth booked!
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 28, 2014 at 7:34 PM

I feel like I got a ton of things knocked out this month. We got a great deal on a photo booth so we booked that so I am not tempted to go over the favor idea again. We met with a local DJ who will do...

Heather, Sep 28, 2014 5 3
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When did a KitchenAid become a "wedding gift standard"?
GrayCatVintage in Community Conversations, on September 24, 2014 at 10:54 PM

I was just curious because as a person who cooks, I never use mine. For years I had an original 1960's KitchenAid stand mixer. It was black and white and it worked but I never used it. Last month, my...

Angie, Sep 26, 2014 56 1,822
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Bed Bath & Beyond will NO LONGER GIVE CASH BACK - WHAT!?
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 24, 2014 at 7:49 PM

I was at a bridal show on Sunday. I filled out a registry card for BB&B for more information - I gave the girl half and I kept the other half. As I am reading the "fine print" it says on there that...

L + A, Sep 25, 2014 72 4,308
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Sure, let's drop $1500 ON TABLECLOTHS...omg...
GrayCatVintage in Do It Yourself, on September 24, 2014 at 6:42 PM

Mother is on a tablecloth kick now. She thinks I need to get like a plain green tablecloth and then ALSO get a pricey embroidered overlay. We saw a lot of overlays at bridal shows recently and she is...

GrayCatVintage, Sep 25, 2014 19 58
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Should I just go whole hog on linens and sell them after the wedding?
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 21, 2014 at 4:45 PM

After speaking with a linen rental company this weekend I feel like it is a total waste to rent linens. The nicer "upgraded" tablecloths rent for over $30 a table - that is like throwing away...

GrayCatVintage, Sep 21, 2014 13 13
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I hate beer - there I said it
GrayCatVintage in Community Conversations, on September 18, 2014 at 10:44 PM

I just really do not like it. I am on board with hard cider - but beer, just yuck. Anyone else just not really care for beer?

annie, Sep 19, 2014 52 58
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NWR: I GOT THE JOB!!!!
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 19, 2014 at 2:16 PM

I just got the call that I got the job I applied for on Wednesday!!! I am relieved I got my foot in the door at a decent company. The pay is not spectacular but at least it will cover my student loans...

Kathryn, Sep 19, 2014 28 33
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NWR: Calm my nerves...the employer I interviewed with has not called yet :(
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 19, 2014 at 10:40 AM

I thought I had a really good interview on Wednesday and the company said they would call today (Friday) with who they picked. As the clock ticks away the more and more I think that I might have...

GrayCatVintage, Sep 19, 2014 15 6
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NWR: I am in a pickle over a job interview situation
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 18, 2014 at 5:06 PM

Long story short - I had a job interview yesterday that I think went really well. Problem - they did not bring up pay or compensation as they said they were still interviewing people. I did not feel...

GrayCatVintage, Sep 18, 2014 9 2
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I am going to try and get FH on board with an "A & B list" for the invitations
GrayCatVintage in Etiquette and Advice, on September 16, 2014 at 1:55 PM

In light of FH's new understanding of the costs and how we have chop the guest list I am going to propose that we have two lists for guests. I know this is in bad taste but the reality is - there...

Rose, Sep 17, 2014 36 32
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