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What happened to CARE?

Hi ladies, I just got home a little while ago and I noticed that CARE'S profile is not avaliable anymore, what happened? Its not set to private b.c you can't even click on her name. Anyone know what happened?

Posted On: Nov 6, 2009 at 5:10 PM | Vendors are allowed to participate

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reddiva22

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The Potters

Married: 09/12/2009
Reviews: 8

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:11 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
She went to the police because of the 'internet threat' she had. Everyone on here couldn't believe she went that far. She probably got upset and left.

reddiva22

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:12 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
OMG!? Poor CARE, did someone threaten her?

JulyBride

Married: 07/25/2009
Reviews: 5

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:13 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Yeah, this happened just a few hours ago.

The Potters

Married: 09/12/2009
Reviews: 8

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:13 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Something with The Knot girls and all that drama. She made a post that she went to police about it. We all thought that was ridiculous she would take it that far. It got pretty heated on that discussion. And it was eventually erased.

Trina

Wedding: 09/10/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:13 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
OMG what when did this happen. I was just thinking about her. WHat happened who did this to her

JulyBride

Married: 07/25/2009
Reviews: 5

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:14 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
I mean she went to the police a couple hours ago, I don't know enough about the threat to comment on that. Just wanted to clarify.

Nathalie D.

Wedding: 10/09/2011

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:17 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Wow...that is so unfortunate. This is ridiculous. I've only been on here for a few days and feel like things are changing on here. I hope the ones that are left (since it seems most ladies are dropping off here fast) can keep it together. I love WW!

Zephyr

Wedding: 01/10/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:20 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
It was on theKnot's forums, someone basically talking about her personality. Something about how it's the type of personality the poster would throat-punch someone for in real life. (Who really would say throat-punch seriously in a threat is what I think, but hey, I wasn't the one getting targetted, so yeah.)

reddiva22

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:21 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
WOW!!!!!

Trina

Wedding: 09/10/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:23 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
OMG! I hope those ladies are gone. What topic was this? I am so lost since I am at work all day.

The Potters

Married: 09/12/2009
Reviews: 8

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:24 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Reddiva....the point is that she totally overreacted. Everyone on here kind of got mad at her for being so ridiculous. The cops? C'mon. They have important things to do. I think we're all so over all this unnecessary drama that we really lashed out at her. I know you didn't know what happend, but lets stop talking about it please.

Trina

Wedding: 09/10/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:32 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Honestly none of us have no right to say if Chances overreacted. Becuase it didn't happen to us. And she did what she felt was right at that time. The ladies from the Knot were just rude. I am sorry but they did say really bad things to me. They came on here and judged myself and some of the other ladies on here, with out even getting to see where we are comming from. If you don't want to talk about it ne more, then don't respond. Chaces/Care was and is a friend to us. And we really shouldn't judge what she did. I feel that she did what she felt she needed to do.

reddiva22

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:43 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Yes. we can stop talking about it, I just didn't know what happened b.c I wasn't here... my grandma was staying with me cause she had surgery on her shoulder and I had to take her to the grocery store (she can't drive) and I just didn't know what happened, thank you for elaborating ladies.....

Nda_ r.

Wedding: 06/05/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:45 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Calling the cops because someone said something about you online? Yes, thats overreacting.

reddiva22

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:50 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
There is no point in discussing whether she overreacted or didn't overreact, its done, and thats it. I am just sorry she's gone.....

reddiva22

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 5:51 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Thats just my opinion, please don't take it personally.

Traci_Bob

Wedding: 06/12/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 6:06 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
She either deleted her account or was kicked off. No clue which but enough drama. I don't care who comes here, if they have questions, answers or opinions that actually someone can benefit from then I say 'yay!'. None of us have any right to dictate who goes and who stays, actually now that things are calmer, women from other sites may actually be helpful to a lot here, I don't agree with anything that happened no matter who did what but just get along, be nice, be kind, no reason to be so defensive, give everyone the benefit of the doubt from this point on and hopefully a 'mix' of opinions (honest & sincere) can actually benefit a lot of us :)

Trina

Wedding: 09/10/2010

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 6:13 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Traci I agree. And we all do need to be nice and understand that we all have diff opions. Actually a fyi she deleted her account. Ne way lets get back to happy posts

Ravenbird

Wedding: 05/28/2011

Posted On: Nov 06, 2009 at 11:50 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
I really don't think Care overreacted These girls came on WW copy and paste things off people profile fully degraded someone on here and threaten someone else. Rather they bullied/harassed people on the internet or in real live it it's still illegal. If Care felt she did the right thing than who is anyone else to say different. you can say it was wrong or right all you want but it never happened to you so really you should have no say in it. I really don't like to get into things like this I haven't really posted anything on here about all the crap that's been going on. But I think you guys are wrong for jumping down Cares throat because she thought it was necessary to go to the cops. I think people should leave her along and just leave this subject alone for now.

LuckyinLove

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 07, 2009 at 12:08 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Well said Ravenbird.

Laura K.

Married: 05/15/2009
Reviews: 7

Posted On: Nov 07, 2009 at 12:36 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
the reason everyone "Jumped down her throat" wasn't just because they felt involving law enforcement was an overreaction. It was also because everyone here had REPEATEDLY begged everyone to not post about it anymore, just as you are continuing to do. No one wanted to hear more about the ugliness that happened, no matter who's fault it was that it happened, it's over now and we don't want it brought up here all the time. She couldn't seem to drop it and everyone was tired of asking nicely to PLEASE PLEASE stop so we can move on. This is my only post about it even though I have very strong opinions on it. But I'd rather keep bite my tongue than draw out this stupid drama. I'm so sick of every post saying "hey lets stop talking about" over and over and over again....that defeats the whole point right? so can we possibly read the words and learn the lesson of them and implement the idea.........LET THIS GO. MOVE ON. STOP POSTING ABOUT IT......had to give it one last try

icart

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 07, 2009 at 1:06 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
First of all unless you talk to Chances personally you have not right to say anything. Some of us have spoken to her and will still speak to her. She did what was right and for anyone to judge someone for protecting themselves I am sorry but this site was about weddings and now it is about bickering back and forth, so what if people can't understand that, but for me. I am out. I don't do this drama thing. This was a fun informative site but now it is just a site. Best of luck to all you ladies and best wishes. Bye..

reddiva22

Wedding: [Private]

Posted On: Nov 07, 2009 at 1:20 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
I just wanted to say that I put up this post in the first place b.c I didn't know what happened and I just wanted to know... I am sry if it brought up drama....

Jessica M.

Married: 09/19/2009

Posted On: Nov 07, 2009 at 2:30 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Holy overreaction, batman.

HIS_WIFEY_09

Married: 11/14/2009

Posted On: Nov 08, 2009 at 12:54 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
i agree with ravenbird and icart she will be missed. If someone hapns to talk to her tell her hello and wish her wwell from me thanx!!!

Libragurl

Wedding: 10/30/2010

Posted On: Nov 08, 2009 at 7:39 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
As far as I have been informed, she has moved on to another site. I don't know which one. Hope that answers the question

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