I finally did it. I let a BM go that was causing me so much frustration. It was not wedding stuff..just more of her negative personality that I cant deal with anymore. The last straw was the other day. Since I have not been working I watch her one and three yr old sometimes when she needs me. Well she asked the other and I told her yes I wil watch them til a certain time and my FH will watch them for the last 2 hours. She snapped at me telling me that what ever was so important I could put aside and watch her children. Mind you..she texts me a hour before not a phone call. I dnt hear text messages because Im not the type to sit by my phone all day. I told her next time please call. She didnt take that well either. Told me that I should be the one to contact her if I really wanted to help her. I felt at that point I am being taking advantage of because in the past I do put other things to the side for her. Just because I dnt announce it does not make it true. I feel so much better.