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Hi Ladies my fiance and I are getting married june next year. I am going to be 32 him 36 is it so bad to want a honeymoon baby? he said yes so hope he means it:) I am scared b/c of my age i will have trouble:(

Nicole
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:45 AM | Add to My Watchlist | Flag As Inappropriate

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Laura K.
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:48 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
they don't consider a woman to be of an age to be concerned with conceiving until you are over 35! If you're really worried, it doesn't hurt to have a gyno visit and talk with them about where you stand fertility-wise. And start taking those prenatal now!!

Bayridgeqt
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:49 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
Honeymoon babies are awesome! My brother and sister-in-law had a honeymoon baby. Also, you being 32 is just fine, my FH's cousin just had her second child at 40. My mother had me at 37. They say pregnancy gets harder with age but your still young! You'll be fine. Good Luck ;)

CPeterson
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:53 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
How exciting! You will be fine my mom got remairried when I was 10 and a few years after that she had my brother at 32 then my sister at 34. I wouldn't worry to much about it!

Unique
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:54 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
My mother got pregnant with my sister when she was 33.
Honey, you are not old. You don't have to worry so much!
They say worrying has the opposite affect......it makes it harder to concieve (sp?)

MEG
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:55 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
We want a honeymoon baby also. I'm going to be 38 and have the same concerns as you. I have already started taking the prenatals and have gone off the pill. Sometimes it takes your body to adjust once going off the pill. Eventhough we are being careful, I know there is a chance I could get pregant before the wedding...but I am willing to take that risk.

Nicole
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 9:58 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
Thank you all you girls are the best. A great support system. Glad to hear everyone was okay:) I will start those prenatal vitamins (can't spell)

Meg I am with you. Lets keep eachother posted after the wedding maybe we will get pregnant at the same time lol


Marcy G
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:02 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
we are waiting at least a month after the honeymoon to try and concieve. We most likely will be going back to HI for 2 weeks and eating a lot of fish (mercury) and drinking a lot would not be a good environment for a new seed to develop. You waited 32 years I don't see waiting one more month after your honeymoon to try and concieve. Trust me you want to party it up on the honeymoon because once you are preggo no alcohol limited fish , etc.

MEG
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:02 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
Will do. Good Luck...to both of us.

Nicole
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:05 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
yes definitly:)

Marcy G

good point lol


Laura K.
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:10 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
we have just scheduled our "farewell to freedom trip" for this December. It's our LAST chance to know for sure I'm not pregnant so I can scuba dive and drink. Even just "trying" you are in baby jail so enjoy the honeymoon now!! Everyone wish me luck that we come home with a "souvenir"....we're going to the same place we honeymooned at! :)

Marcy G
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:11 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
and 32 is young btw :) The risks only go up slightly after 35

DreamComeTrue
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:24 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
Im a firm believer in the Law of Attraction and the power of positive thinking.So think positive thoughts! Also, I have two girlfriends that had babies this year...one is 38 and one is 40...it happens all the time :)

DreamComeTrue
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:26 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
Oh and my OBGYN said something about as soon as we started thinking about getting pregnant she would start us on Folic Acid so talk to your OBGYN about that and good luck :)

jessica s.
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:33 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
nothing wrong with it at all get on prendal vitmans and folic acid and go have fun on your honeymoon :)

Nicole
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:36 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
Laura K.
good luck to you;)

I do have an appointment with gyno nov 16th just for checkup with all your advice I am going to follow the right steps and definitly be poitive very true;)


TinkerBell
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 10:59 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
I had my daughter at 35. I'm 37 and will hopefully be trying for another in the near future.

aslominski
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 11:05 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
one of my best friends...who is 35 mind you...has a 15 month old and is due again in December! Its way doable...and will be fun doing :) Just don't be stressed out about it, its not good for you, a baby or your FH

futuremrsmcdonald
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 11:20 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
my aunt had my cousin at 42 and he and she were both great. I do know just from having a baby with some health issues that if you want to start thinking about concieving then go ahead and ask your ob for a script for folic acid or i think you can get it OTC. but anyways most people your age still definitely have no problems having a baby or getting pregnant for that matter. I wish you all good luck in your adventures to babydom. I know what a great joy it is to be a mother. So have fun.....................lol

JulyBride
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 11:26 AM
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Fernnie
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Posted On: Nov 11, 2009 at 12:26 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
I was 34 when I had my last baby. Yes it was alot different then my previous ones. I would start on prenatal vitamns. Plus ask obgyn about timeing.
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