I need some unique memorial ideas. We had orignally decided to have a memorial service during the wedding ceremony. I started to make the list and realized that we'd be there all day. I tried to ask my fiance and my mother who I could cut from the list and they found no one. So now we're thinking a memorial ceremony is not such a good idea. I don't really want to get the candles because I want them to have the names on them which will cost a lot of money because we have a lot of names. I don't have pictures of all of them so I can't really have pictures set up. I don't want to nix the idea because both of my fiance's parents are deceased and I want to have them some how some way a part of our day as well as a few close family members. (The list is so long because I have a HUGE family and we're all close). So does anyone have any ideas? Also someone had told me flowers I have allergies and I want something different and unique.