stressing--"fh, dear, how do i plan a wedding with no money?!" (rant)
so fh and i have been engaged since april. the wedding is in october. i'm the only one doing /any/ planning right now, and i'm doing it with no money. fh keeps saying he'll get the money, he's about to have it, etc. well, honey, you get paid 500$ a week. just give me 100 or so of it so i can get some stuff done!!! i don't think he gets the fact that our wedding is in 105 days, and that i've got /nothing/ done!
my mom, bless her heart, she's my savior, has promised to contribute 1000$, but she can't give me anything really until the 5th and 20th of each month (that's when she gets paid). so that will help a lot--once the 20th rolls around and i can get started!!!
i'm talking to fh this weekend and asking him to start giving me some money, but if he hem-haws around it, i'm telling him "look, you're the one insisting on having the ceremony" i told him i'd rather go to the courthouse and avoid the stress, but he told me he knows i want the wedding. which was sweet at the time, (cont'd)
Married: 1+ year ago