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Devoted September 2009

Pasta Reception "Okay" or "Tacky" / "Cheap"?

pianoNYK, on January 23, 2009 at 8:57 PM Posted in Planning 0 17

I want to do a pasta buffet reception because (1) I'm a runner and can't get enough carbs, (2) Our guests are mostly middle-aged & older Asian family members who are less likely to appreciate "American" foods, and at least from my experience, pasta seems to be pretty "safe" and enjoyed by most people in the US today, and (3) From experience planning too many events in college, you never need nearly as much food as caterers ask of you, so rather than get stuck with a caterer who prepares foods & charges per person, I'd rather under-order by their standards (but still over-order from mine, just in case) to minimize wastage of both money & food. We're planning on ordering party platters from a fave restaurant & some appetizers from fave stores.

However, my fiancé thinks pasta is "cheap," and while he's okay with serving it for all of the above reasons, he's concerned what people will think.

Just wondering whether you think this is okay or if we should go for a more traditional menu Smiley smile

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Latest activity by Jessica, on March 5, 2021 at 10:56 AM
  • valeriezacutie
    Dedicated February 2009
    valeriezacutie ·
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    I think its a good plan but u should still include a meat im italian & love pasta but i cant stand to just have it without some kind of meat. you just need one like maybe chicken or sausage which both work well with pasta

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  • J
    Devoted July 2010
    JessicaLyn ·
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    I do not think it is cheap. I think it is a great idea, many weddings have pasta, mexican etc. Smiley smile I do agree that if you can add some meat to the menu that would be a great idea.

    As far as "traditional" I say forget it and do it your way. That is what we are doing Smiley smile Congrats and good luck.

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  • P
    Devoted September 2009
    pianoNYK ·
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    Yay, thanks! I was planning on having some sort of chicken dish, lasagna (my fave), spaghetti & meatballs/meatsauce (the siblings' fave), maybe some type of seafood pasta dish, and maybe one more "main" course so as to accommodate people who don't like cheese, allergies, etc.

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  • J
    Devoted July 2010
    JessicaLyn ·
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    I think your idea is great! Sounds yummy and not cheap or tacky at all Smiley smile

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  • BeckiO
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    BeckiO ·
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    Personally I love the idea especially if you're on a tight budget. I'm thinking of doing that actually as my Rehearsal Dinner since my hubby is set on our Crawfish Boil/BBQ. You can make pasta as dressed up or as casual as you want. I even thought of doing the pasta and leaving it plain and letting our guests at our Rehearsal Dinner choose between plain or meat sauce or even Alfredo, and offering chicken, and doing something like Meatballs in sauce on the side for those who like their extra meat, and maybe even offering Ravioli or Lasagna. It's easy, cheaper than pizza. Truthfully if that makes life simple for you and have something that everyone will eat, then why not? Who doesn't love pasta?

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  • BeckiO
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    BeckiO ·
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    It's also funny you bring this topic up on a night where I just ate pasta for dinnerSmiley smile

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  • Michelle Powell
    Michelle Powell ·
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    Some of the best food we've seen at weddings have been pasta dishes. I'd say GO FOR IT! Smiley smile I love the idea of including one with chicken or some other meat as well.

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  • Buie's Girl
    Dedicated April 2009
    Buie's Girl ·
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    Pasta is a great option. it is cheap, but it doesn't look cheap and it goes a long way. that's what we're doing. no one is going to think anything of it except for that it's good (which i hope that it is!). my mom's coworker's daughter got married and they had like 5 different kinds of pasta and it went over great!

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  • BeckiO
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    BeckiO ·
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    My Grandparents years ago at their 25th Anniversary (she's remarried) had her Anniversary Party at a Maggiano's Little Italy Restaurant and served pasta dishes family style, and it was the best. Think of it this way by serving pasta, you can accomodate those who like their extra meat, you can accomodate the Vegetarians, and it's also kid friendly if there are any kids in your Wedding or being invited to your Wedding. It's a happy medium, just if you serve Garlic Bread, or even the garlic itself in the pasta sauce, make sure plenty of breath mints are on handSmiley smile

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  • M
    Beginner April 2010
    mrsmeans09 ·
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    I think it is a great idea, but would suggest having one non pasta dish because their are a lot of people who either have allergies to wheat or cant have the carbs so you may want an alternative for them

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  • Karen Guyt
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    The coppery wedding pictured on my storefront portfolio had two kinds of pasta & it didn't look cheap at all. Here's what we did - caesar salad plated & served with bread, dishes were cleared, then out came pasta with sausage, white beans and a creamy tomato sauce and a pasta primavera that was vegetarian (but not vegan) served family style. THe menu suited the not only the decor, but also the venue which had a warm tuscan feel. It felt luxe because everyone could eat as much or as little as they wanted, plus people had to engage with each other to pass the bowls. Wine was on every table, with Pellegrino, coffee & tea availble at a separate station. As a bonus, the meal was fairly inexpensive - excellent for a party of 200. AND it was able to spread far enough to cover the 20 or so guests who showed up unexpectedly. That's why your caterer's estimate is higher than you think - better to have too much than not enough. You can bring them to the local fire station or shelter.)

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  • May2010Bride
    Super May 2010
    May2010Bride ·
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    I love the pasta idea. We are in the process of looking at a country club that part of their "food choices" is pasta and salad bar for only 6.95 a head. Grant you, I'm in WV and being from NJ originally I know this is very cheap. We are working into also have a mozzerella stick platter and garlic bread. The pasta is two types of noodles to pick from and two sauces (marinara or alfredo).

    So I say "Viva La Pasta" and go for it. Kathy

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  • K
    Just Said Yes September 2017
    Katherine ·
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    We are serving rigatoni pasta at our wedding with my late grandmother's recipe that came over on the boat with her grandparents from Italy. That said, we're having a Tuscan Italian wedding, so it kinda fits with everything else.

    To me, good food is never "cheap" or tacky, even when it doesn't cost much. People will remember whether it tasted good and they had enough to eat, not specifically what they ate.

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  • Tiffany
    Beginner April 2021
    Tiffany ·
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    I decided to let my FH create the menu & he chose spaghetti & chicken. At first, I was skeptical until I saw this thread. This app has answered soooo many of my questions & I just joined 3 days ago!!! You guys are the best!!
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  • Gwendolyn
    Devoted July 2021
    Gwendolyn ·
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    Heck no! Good pasta, IMO, beats out the same old dry chicken breast any day! It's filling and inoffensive. I would just make sure you have a good salad option too.

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  • Angela
    Dedicated February 2020
    Angela ·
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    Pasta is not cheap, it’s good for the budget. Do what you want, it’s your wedding! We are doing a chili and soup dinner. 4 different crock pots and a large charcuterie table. Good for the budget and appropriate for a barn wedding.

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    Just Said Yes April 2022
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    I know this is a zombie post, but I'm so glad I found it through Google! We have been debating on OG drop off(which we would still have to setup etc.), or DIY pasta stations. I figured even if I bought whole legit chafing dishes, I'd still spend half the budget of going through OG, and there could be extra to donate, if there are leftovers. We're doing Alice in Wonderland, using the red theme, and I was kinda concerned with the food, but I also realized that pasta is a good, stuffing meal, and it leaves me more room for apps and drinks during photos, and the extra money for the better linens.
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