My husband-to-be does not have a large number of guy friends to pull from. Using his two brothers, his best friend, and two of my brothers, there are only five gentlemen standing up with him. I have four sisters. I also have a large number of very close friends (closer than my sisters in some cases) of whom I had a long time past discussed them being in my wedding if I were engaged.
I do love my sisters. However, three of my sisters don't care about being bridesmaids (they understand my dilemma). However, my older sister cared enough (although she has been a bridesmaid once before for our older brother's wedding while none of the rest of us have ever been in a wedding) to be bitter about it when I was discussing the possibility of her not being a bridesmaid on the phone. My parents support my decision to not have my sisters be bridesmaids, but I'm still struggling with the choice. I'm being bullied by my sister emotionally and I don't appreciate it. Any insight would be helpful.