Hello! I'm a 24 year old bride to be. My fiance is 22 almost 23 and we are getting married on October 27, 2012. My parents, especially my mother, have always been very critical, negative, judgmental, controlling people. I told my FH when we first started talking about marriage not to expect my family to be happy for us when we go engaged. And they weren't. When we told them, my daddy said I want you to wait two or three years. He also told me he didn't want me moving. He wants me to live beside him and my mother. I am moving and I am also planning on getting married in six months not three years. My fiance and I both have college degrees and jobs in our chosen fields. However, when we get married I will quit my job and become a housewife and prepare to have a family. It hurts me so bad that they are only looking at the superficial aspects and now what really matters. How do I tell them I'm getting married in six months? I dread the argument.