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My MOH I love dearly, we have been best friends since kindergarten, and we don't talk often anymore since she moved 6 hours away and I know she is super busy, but when we do talk it was like yesterday that we talked. It's always sort of bugged me that we're not as close as we used to be and I've called to talk to her many times and well, I can't get a hold of her, or she doesn't reply back to texts, messages, etc..I feel like we're not losing our relationship, just, not in touch as much as I'd like, and not just because of wedding stuff, just because I miss her and I don't know how to tell her this or if I should, I know she'll feel bad and feel bad for a very very long time. I don't want our friendship to be making phone dates to catch up..What do I do?

FMS, the barefoot wife!

Married: 1+ year ago
Reviews: 11

Posted On: Nov 4, 2009 at 1:51 PM | Vendors are allowed | Add to My Watchlist | Flag As Inappropriate

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The Potters

Married: 09/12/2009
Reviews: 8

Posted On: Nov 04, 2009 at 2:01 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Are ya'll on facebook or myspace. That is such an easy way to stay in touch. Hopefully you're not the only one making phone calls and trying to stay in touch. But I think this is something that comes as we grow up. Friends move and marry and have children. And their friendships are not top priority any more. Maybe you just have to get used to only hearing from her every once in a while. But e-mail and do what you can.

FMS, the barefoot wife!

Married: 1+ year ago
Reviews: 11

Posted On: Nov 04, 2009 at 2:04 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Yeah, we're both on facebook, but not actually on it alot, the whole Getting married and having kids kind of makes me scared of not necissarily 'losing her' but she isn't planning on getting married or having kids anytime soon, so I'm just scared what that will do to our relationship..But I will try to keep in contact as much as I can!

Tracey

Married: 05/22/2011
Reviews: 6

Posted On: Nov 04, 2009 at 2:55 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
It's hard to keep a relationship strong when your lives are so different. When I was younger, my friends and I got together several times a week but now it's just not possible anymore because we all have different priorities. I would tell her that it's important to you to keep a friendship as strong as you can and see what she says!