Just found out I'm not getting a shower.....Is my mom right? UPDATE
She just happen to casually mention to me on the phone that my Aunt called to RSVP and wanted to know if I was having a shower. My mom told her it was "innapropriate" since this is my second marriage. I didn't know there was a rule about that? My aunt was just as confused. I'm not close with my mom's family because of all the bickering and drama, but it turns out my mom is the one who doesn't want me to have one. I didn't think I would care...but now I feel a little bit hurt. My coworkers are throwing me a batchelorette party because they felt so bad I wasn't going to have one of those either.
Should I talk to my mom about maybe having one? Or is 29 and second marriage really innapropriate? I feel bad for FH mom, sister and aunts that I KNOW would want to come and celebrate his marriage.
Would be suggesting a "garden" party be cute and low cost if his family wants to have one? We are in desperate need of plants and landscaping for our house.