I was VERY close to my grandma. My sister had cancer as a child (I was really young) and I stayed with her for weeks at a time while my parents were at the hospital (which was 2 hours away) with my sister. So I was very, very close to her and miss her A LOT and wish she could be with me on my wedding day.. Anyway, so I'd really like to honor her at my wedding. She played the piano so I thought about putting a candle or flower arrangement on the piano to honor/remember her, and I want to put something in the program about it.
So anyway, I also have a grandfather who died also, who I wasn't very close to. And FH has 3 grandparents who passed away (2 that he never even knew) but he says he feels like his family would be offended if I mentioned my grandmother and none of his grandparents.. which I understand. Especially since his grandmother (her husband passed away) will be at the wedding and I'm sure she would feel as if her husband was "forgotten." So... (cont)