Can someone tell my FH that...

him and his GM cannot wear "Philadelphia Eagles" green vests in their tuxs?

Posted On: Nov 2, 2009 at 7:59 PM


loveat1stsite
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Not-A-Bridezilla
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:01 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Oh god--NOOOO!!! Please don't.. if loveat1ststite's FH is reading this DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!! You'll regret it in 30 years when you look back at ur wedding pics

reddiva22
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:02 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
OK, is it just the green color or the eagles logo? Is there green in your wedding? I want to be able to give advice but I need to know the details to give you advice.

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:04 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
No its just the green color.oh if he wanted the logo.i would kill him...but the colors are already picked out..one of them being burgundy..it would look like christmas! I'm gunna wear a Philadelphia Eagles garter thats gunna be a surprise for him...he's not wearing green.

ChancesAre4u
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:05 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Being a fellow Eagles Fan....E-A-G-L-E-S....Fly Eagles fly, on the road to victoryyyyyyyyyyy.....

Ok back to the question...NO WAY! If it's just the emerald green color, than I think that is oka, but if its emblazoned with the Eagles logo...I say no...sorry FH!!!

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:06 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
CHances...I have become a huge Eagles fan since moving to PA and working in Philly...but there's no way! It is just the green color, but it just doesn't go well with the bridesmaid dresses that are burgundy and ALREADY ordered..
PS they were amazing this past weekend :)

Not-A-Bridezilla
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:11 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
ehh... Michael Vick grrrrrrrr

Sachele D.
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:26 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
I think that burgundy and green look good together! You have to remember this is his wedding too. You should be happy he has an opinion because most grooms don't.

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:31 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Yeah but you don't understand...he's doing it and suggesting these ideas to piss me off..he really doesn't care..if he did, then I would consider his ideas...

whatupmoonpie
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 8:37 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
just remember that it's his day too. :o)
this will make your day even more memorable.

bay
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 9:04 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Um, no I don't think so either. Especially if the BM dresses are already ordered. I don't have a problem with FH's voicing their opinions and having a say in wedding decisions. However, they also need to understand some of these decisions need to be made early on and cannot easily be altered.

tiffsworld
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 9:31 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Is it possible for him to wear it under his tux shirt? That way he gets to wear it but it can't be seen by anyone?

yadayada
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 9:31 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
LOL! Well, this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I think you can make it work. Here's some pics where the burgundy/green combo looked pretty nice:
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_IhUIIcG6cd8/SLFYxvBo9EI/AAAAAAAAAGA/0bJg6_fltew/s320/purple and green wedding colours.jpg
http://static.vsocial.com/theknot/022008/photos/0442cd7d0a24be59f6adb07ed4a076ce_player.png
What about getting the girls green bouquets to match the guys' vests? Remember it's his wedding too, and if it's really important to him, it might be worth it to let him have the colors he want. Plus then you'll get to hear what a cool bride you are from all the guys. :-)

tiffsworld
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 9:32 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Oh sorry just reread the question...guess that wouldn't work. lol


jenni11
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 9:41 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Maybe he could wear a green tie so that it incorporates his color but isn't as much of a focal point as the vest will be when he takes of his jacket. Oh, and I think the garter is a cute surprise!

Esgal4life
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 9:52 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
I am sure he will love the garter idea (where did you find an eagle one??) FH, dad, and my bro LOVE THE EAGLES!!!
but if green is not in your wedding then no way.... if it was and they just wanted green find but other then that no way.. :-D

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 02, 2009 at 10:42 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
I don't mean to come off as a bitch about how it's only my day..I hope you don't get that impression. It's just that he didn't care and now all of a sudden, he has opinions, and clearly I want to hear them and its important to me about what he thinks..it's just that you cannot just decide things on a whim and think it will automatically work. We are going to look at tuxs soon..so I guess time will tell :)
Mayo- the garter is on the NHL shop/eagles website.

Sachele D.
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 12:43 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
You have almost a year left in planning so I'm sure you don't have all of the decor picked out and ordered yet so I think you could work it in if you wanted to. I guess the real question is why you don't want to let him pick one of the colors.
I know what you are saying about him saying things just to frustrate you. My husband actually wanted our sage to be bright green for the Ducks (UO) but he wanted it only to frustrate me and I asked him point blank, "do you really care about the colors or are you just doing it to be frustrating?" He said that he didn't really care but if he had said he really wanted it I would have made it work. But Sapphire blue and birght green just wouldn't have had the same touch as Sapphire and sage.

LuckyinLove
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 12:47 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
What about having him wear green cuff links, tie clip, socks or something else small and barely noticeable? That way he gets to wear green and it is not enough to clash with your colors.

LovelyUnique
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 8:25 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
LoL
Why Not?
I Love the eagles.. and stupid McNabb to go with them LoL

yadayada
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 10:03 AM | Flag As Inappropriate
@ loveat1stsite, don't worry you didn't come off any bad way. I agree with you that it's more frustrating when the grooms have opinions than when they don't :-)

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 7:11 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
If he really wanted the green, I would let him, but its just trying to mess with me when he knows I'm under stress with the wedding, but more or less other things going on with family and work etc. He thinks hes being "cute"..lol but its hard to stay mad at him.

kristinmarie81
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 7:47 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
See if you can get him a Philly Eagles groom's cake. Astros cake worked great to smooth over the lack of Astros theme to FSIL's wedding last year. Or maybe a jersey or hat to wear at the reception after all of the official portraits are done.

reddiva22
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 7:51 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Hmm... I mean yea, I could totally see not letting him have the logo, but what would be so wrong with him having a green vest? I agree it is his wedding too, as long if its a green that goes with your color scheme I don't see whats so wrong with that. I agree on having the eagles groom cake, that would be so cool!

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 7:59 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Yeah it will definitely be incorporated somehow..i cant say no outright to him ever.

Sachele D.
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 8:07 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Think of it this way are you or him going to look back and say gee I wish we would have had green.

loveat1stsite
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Posted On: Nov 03, 2009 at 8:11 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Probably not..hes so fickle
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