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thats awesome of you and yes atleast you tried

Awwwww, very proud of you jessica. Maybe she didn't get the message yet but you are right, you tried and that is all that counts :)

that is very brave! now what happens in her hands and at least you know you tried. maybe she just needs a little time to digest your message or maybe she did delete, you just don't know that quite yet so I think it's ok to have a little hope for a big. At least I have some hope for and your sister to reconnect. Hopefully all will end well with your sister and good luck with the last bit of your pregnancy!

That was definitly brave of you! Just remember that you were the one who tried, you are the bigger person!
G'luck with the baby! You should be proud of yourself

That did take a lot of courage!! My sister and I have been fuding as long as I can rememeber! It has always been a caompition between! She is my MOH and I told her straight up that this is my day and she beeter not try to take it over!! sometimes it is hard to be the bigger person!!!! good luck with everything!! Congrats on the baby boy!!

Good for you (and your Karma). I'd bet she did listen, and even if she doesn't call you back right away, please call her and let her know when your precious boy arrives. Wishing only good things for you and your family!

That was very mature of you. Give it some time....it's possible that she hasn't listened to it yet. And even if she did, it may take her a little time for it to sink in and for her to get the courage to call you back. I wish you the best of luck!

We're all very proud of you. It is very hard to forgive people sometimes after the way they treat us but you did a wonderful thing. Hopefully she listens to the message and realises that family is most important.

I am proud of you! I did something simular when my sister was having issues eaarlier this year. She kept saying that she wasn't someing to the wedding etc. etc. I just said "What ever, youwill still get an invite, you're my sister I love you and whenever you're done what ever journey your on, I will be here" and two months later she texted and apologized. Just giver her more time, she'll eventually come around.

A cousin of mine didn't speak to her late sister during pregnacy, after the sister die at child birth she began to cry out regrets. I hope she reply your call and make up with you.

aw good for you!! I'm glad you can feel satisfaction in knowing you were the bigger person and did the right thing. That's all you can do. Congrats on the baby! You must be ready to burst waiting for little Seth!!

Good for you! You made the big step in calling her. I hope she listened to it. Sorry if she didn't. My sister and I didn't talk for a while too and one year for Christmas my parents went to NC (we live in CA) to visit our brother and his family and we stayed home in CA and I was feeling sad because I wouldn't be spending time with my family and she actually called me Christmas Eve to see if I wanted to go over on Christmas Day to spend it with her and my nephews. I said yes, so my hubby and I went over and She made dinner and we exchanged gifts (well, I didn't have one for her but she had one for me and I had some for my nephews). I gave her a gift later though. It's weird how family fight but yet you just know you still need them no matter what. I wish you the best with your sister. Good luck and congrats!

good for you :] let us know how it goes and hows the final days of the pregnancy??

good for you! Like they say you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family.

Thats awesome! And at least you treid, if she dont call you back then thats on her, you were the bigger person.

She better call you back! Good for you1

That is very mature of you to do, I hope she calls you back soon!! I had a similar situation with one of my best friends recently but our little tiff only lasted less than 2 months. I have a feeling she will want to be back on good terms once you have your baby. Good luck with everything!

heres an update my family had a get together that my hubby and i could not attend due to the fact that i'm about about to pop as so many family members put it. plus it was 2 hours away and i'm not aloud to be 2 hours away from my doc at this point. Anywho my sister was at that family get together it was at my mom and dad's house she didn't say a word about the voicemail to them so she did what i know she would she just deleted it without lisoning to it. and i haven't heard from her which makes it even more convincing that she just got rid of it.