bachelor party fears
I am having fears about my fiance's bachelor party, i dont know why because i trust him, but you always hear horror stories, does anyone else have these fears or thoughts?

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:51 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
nope, I trusted my hubby and his friends, as he trusted me. No fears, no worries

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:52 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
A little. But I know my FH, he isn't going to do anything that will jeopardize his relationship with me. I don't mind if they go see strippers, etc.. But I know he isn't going to hookup with one. 1. its not his style, 2. he choose to marry me.

What exactly is your fear?

Hayley C™
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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:52 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
Just know that if he goes to a strip club, they will tear his boxers off and most have him crawl around on the stage, and ride him like a horse... he most likely will be whipped with a belt.... so don't be surprised if he comes home with no boxers on.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:53 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
Im going to be honest, I dread it too. I wont let him know that though. I was ok with it until I heard a story straight from the horses mouth(the guy that was getting married) He said the stripper had "protection" and put it on him and the deed was done. I thought that NEVER actually happened, but I guess it does. Disgusting. He ended up divorced.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:55 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
i know and trust my FH, its just his fratnerity brothers i dont trust, liquor frat brother strippers=trouble. but we spoke this morning about it and like you guys said he trusts me and i trust him, i was just wondering if anyone had a worry or fear in them when it came to the bachelor party, i know he would not jeopardize our relationship, so i'm not worried about that.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:55 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
My FH is the only man I've ever trusted so much. We talked about our plans and we are both at peace with them.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:56 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
There is no sex in the strip clubs.... at least none of the ones I have been to... the private rooms have video cameras so the bouncers can keep an eye on the girls the whole time. If there was sex, I'm guessing it was a stripper hired to come to a private home... then there is no telling what is off limits (if anything)

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:56 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
not anymore... i castrated him :o)

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:59 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
Well, Amber he made that choice. She didn't rape him. He could have walked away and obviously he didn't care too much about his marriage. If you trust him and realize it's just a night out with the boys being silly then there's no need to worry. I don't know that any of us are really excited about the prospect of our guys watching dancers in all of their glory on a stage but he's not really going for that, he's going out with his buddies, doing guy things and if his friends are good, they won't force him or egg him into anything that would jeopardize your relationship.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:59 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
I have the same problem. I trust FH for sure. But he has a HUGE jealousy problem and wants me to have a 'stay in' party with my lady friends. I think it is totally unreasonable for him to get to go to strippers and me not allowed to leave the house. We are getting pre-marital counseling btw, just to smooth out issues like this. I would definitely have a problem with anybody taking his boxers of though. *sigh* It's probably a good thing he'll be in Oklahoma City and I'll be traveling in the opposite direction for my bachelorette party. That way we can't crash each other's parties. LOL

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Mar 28, 2011 at 9:59 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
ROFLMAO @ S2B Mrs. Murphey. That solves that problem. :P

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Mar 28, 2011 at 10:00 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
I'm not concerned, I trust my FH. FH is disgusted by strip clubs and strippers as are most of his friends, so he has made it clear that they aren't welcome at his bach party.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 10:01 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
@ Bella My sisters NEW BOYFRIEND lol. She's such a mess. But it does happen. Im not too worried because the guys going to his BP are all married with kids, and my brother will be there as a spy ;-)

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Mar 28, 2011 at 10:01 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
hahahahahahaha s2b mrs murphey!!! Thats a way to have no worries!

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Mar 28, 2011 at 10:01 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
thanks guys you have helped alot, and i guess a better word for this is dread it opposed to fear it!!

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Mar 28, 2011 at 10:06 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
I trust FH 1000% and I don't worry about his bach party - he wants to go out on the boat with his buddies.

But FH is a GM in another wedding and they have a couple of single friends who ruin it for everyone bc they think it's funny to cause trouble at the expense of others. Grr.

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Mar 28, 2011 at 10:11 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
ok to be serious i think for most women it is probably back there in their head... however... turtle's bach party will be a fishing retreat in the middle of nowhere!!! i will make sure its in the middle of nowhere! :o)
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