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Bridesmaids/Groomsmen
I really don't like the idea of bridesmaids/groomsmen up on the bimah with the family. I think only family should be there and its very sweet. My Fiance said he'd do that but if we did have people up there he'd want 4 groosmen because he wouldn't be able to choose down to 2 to equal how many people I would want up there.


Anyone have any suggestions as to how to honor these guys in different ways other than having them up there?


Thanks!

Jennifer C.
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Married: 06/28/2009
Posted On: Feb 6, 2008 at 10:35 AM | Add to My Watchlist | Flag As Inappropriate

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MindyTwirl
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Married: 06/27/2008
Reviews: 5
Posted On: Feb 06, 2008 at 3:10 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
Hi Jennifer,
actually you asked a really good question especially since so many people want to include everyone. The best thing to do, is get the groomsmen the same suits and ties. Then to honor the two other guys you can give them the same tie as the groomsmen. It will stand out but not be tacky. You can also include them in some of the photos.
Good Luck!

tovit23
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Married: 06/07/2008
Reviews: 7
Posted On: Feb 07, 2008 at 3:05 PM | Flag As Inappropriate
My fiance and I had the same problem picking out who should be up there with us, what I decided to do was have the other guys be ushers. So they actually get to seat the guests and hand out programs. They're wearing suits and I'm getting boutonierres for them.
 
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