Richard Cash, Officiant 4.9 out of 5.0 4.9/5.0
Piscataway, NJ 08855
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About
Need a friendly, warm, sincere, and dependable officiant? I am a non-denominational celebrant embracing all couples, all faiths, cultures and traditions. I work with you to create your ceremony the way you've imagined it and perform it at wherever you chosen to be married.

I believe that all love is divine and I respect all relationships. Any two people who are deeply in love and have pledged their commitment to each other should be allowed to marry as long as they are aware of, and have respect for, all the rights and responsibilities that come with marriage.

I work with couples every day to create exactly the “right” ceremony. I would be honored to work with you to create a truly meaningful ceremony, filled with love, warmth, laughter and joy.

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Frequently Asked Questions for Officiant
What officiant services do you provide?
Civil Union, Interfaith Ceremony, Non-religious Ceremony, Same Sex
 
What religious affiliations do you serve?
Agnostic, Christian (no denomination)
 
Can you accommodate the hearing impaired?
No
 
Are you willing to perform a ceremony at a non-religious site?
Yes. Absolutely. In fact, the majority of my ceremonies occur at non-religious sites: large reception venues, private homes, parks, on the beach. You tell me where your ceremony will be held, I'll be there.
 
What is your attire for the ceremony?
I always wear a suit but also have a black cleric's robe for those occasions when a couple requests that I wear it.
 
Are you flexible in the wording used throughout the ceremony, including the vows?
150% flexible. I encourage couples to present their ideas to me of their vision for the ceremony. I hate to use the proverbial "think outside the box" phrase, but when my couples do that, we come up with some very unique ideas to include in the ceremony.
 
Do you allow the couple to write their own vows, if desired?
Yes, I encourage personalization of vows for those couples who feel they can do it. This is a very difficult task for many couples, but personal vows add another level of intimacy to the ceremony.
 
Do you have a list of readings pre-selected, from which the couple must choose?
I have a list of readings I provide but encourage couples to explore everything that's out there - and they do. I'm always surprised by some of the readings that couples include in their ceremonies and I incorporate many of them into my list.
 
How long are your ceremonies?
Generally, my ceremonies last from 15 - 25 minutes.
 
Do you require that premarital counseling be done?
No.
 
Are you willing to perform pre-ceremony rehearsals?
Yes and I almost always attend the rehearsal. This gives me a chance to spend time with the couple before their wedding as well as meet the bridal party, parents, families and friends.
 
Do you supply a sound system?
No.

Tips and Advice
One of the most important decisions you’ll make as a couple when planning your wedding or civil union ceremony is choosing the “right” officiant.
 
At a minimum, you want someone who:
§   Respects your relationship
§   Listens to you
§   Understands your needs and wishes and
§   Incorporates them into your ceremony
 
I promise all this and more. Here’s what you can expect from me:
§   Trust
§   Empathy
§   Compassion
§   Creativity
§   Warmth
§   Humor