Rick was the associate minister in my church growing up. He now works at Williams college. He was wonderful. Over the year and half engagement we meet with him 4 times. Each time he worked to get to know us, talk about the ceremony and provide some guidance. The ceremony was not very religous but focused more on love. We received numerous complients. One of my mother strict catholic friends even made the comment, "that was such a beautiful service I might have to become presbyterian."