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Trying on wedding gowns-first time.

I was browsing and hoped I could find this some where on here but maybe me being tired right now I didn't notice it. But I am trying on dresses this Sunday I am completely nervous, i've been working my butt off to try and lose weight to look decent while trying gowns on but I'm curious what should I bring? I'm stressing more about this than the wedding itself! I'm nervous because I'm short 5'1, large chest and curvy. I don't even know what style dress would flatter me. I don't want to be dissapointed just from trying them on. I want a dress with straps/cap sleeves should I wear an everyday bra? type of shoe? I know to bring a camera though! Thank you ahead of time.

Posted On: Aug 6, 2008 at 9:54 PM | Vendors are allowed to participate

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Samantha1414

Married: 05/30/2009
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smp*rlw

Married: 08/15/2009

Posted On: Aug 06, 2008 at 10:25 PM \| Flag As Inappropriate
I am also short 5' even and very large chest. I got off a dress with off the shoulder cap types sleeves and it is a sweetheart top, it does show a bit much clevage but the seamstress is going to add some fabric up their to fix that and even with that I knew it was the one the moment i put it on, so dont worry about being dissappoint when u find the one you will know, but keep trying on more dresses to be sure and cuz its fun! As far as what to bring i had a strapless corsset type bra that i wore when I was a bridesmaid but the ladies at the dress shop offered me one to use before they knew i had one (however they didnt actually have my size) so they may or may not have something for u depending on ur size. shoes dont matter at all at least not where I went and at most places they have things for u to stand on that the dress will just fall over top of so u can see exactly what it looks like. Hope that all helps!

Jami V.

Married: 09/20/2008
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Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 12:31 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
The store will most likely put you in a really supportive strapless bra. IF you already have the shoes that you are going to wear in the wedding then you could take them if you want, but it is not necessary. The first day shopping is simply to choose the dress. The shoes are only really necessary when you go in for dress fittings. As far as what type of dress, if you don't know what type of gown you want then they will probably put you in one of each style to find out wht you like best (ballgown, a-line, mermaid, trumpet, sheath, etc). Good luck! I tried on about 20 dresses but ended up buying the first one I tried on.

Buie's Girl

Married: 04/18/2009

Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 1:14 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
just a word of warning: the shop may not let you take pictures of the dresses unless you've bought it all ready. i know that the shop where i live doesn't allow that anyway.

Candace523

Married: 05/23/2009

Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 1:32 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
First of all try not to be nervous, trying on dresses should be fun, oh, and dont be disappointed, when you try on dresses the sizes run smaller than normal, esp. for larger busts. I wear size 10 pants but actually had to get an size 18 for my bust not to be squished. I felt depressed and embarassed at first, but then decided not to let me "size" to be a disappointment. The camera thing can be an issue, some retailers cant even take pictures of some manufactures dresses to post on websites. I agree, if you have shoes TAKE THEM. At least take the size heel you think you will wear to give you a sense of how the gown will flow, make you taller, slimer, etc. Bring a comfortable, strapless/changeable bra, the ones you can make normal/strapless/halter/etc. Or one with clear staps. But MOST IMPORTANTLY bring a GOOD FRIEND who will tell you the TRUTH, is HELPFUL, and SUPPORTIVE. You need someone to keep you in track and not go crazy. Remeber to laugh, relax and enjoy!

Christina P.

Married: 07/06/2007
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Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 8:39 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Also, regardless of what size they fitted you for, make sure you get it atleast a size bigger. Incase you gain a little more, which shouldn't be made into a big deal it will only add on unnecessary stress. Its much easier to bring in a dress than out.

Tracy

Married: 04/18/2009
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Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 9:51 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
you have gotten great advice! Candice hit the nail on the head! i am also busty....and wound up getting a dress with straps, that is somewhat low cut and fitted in the bodice and more of an A-line skirt.....its very flattering. I also liked the strapless sweetheart necklines on me too. this should be a fun time, if you have shoes with the heel height you will be wearing bring them, if not the shop should have shoes for you. and bring a strapless bra....my shop gave me one to use. and i would suggest wearing regular undies....you dont want to be flashing your goods to the woman in the fitting room with you.

LES

Married: 10/18/2008

Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 10:53 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
I was really nervous on my first day shopping for a dress, too. I went with two girlfriends, who helped a lot. We made lunch plans, too, to break up the day and decompress a bit. One of them gave me a great piece of advise that I thought was weird at the time. She said to make sure to do my hair and make-up (not over the top, but not typical Saturday am stuff) so that when I tried on these great dresses, I'd have a better idea of the complete "look" not just the dress. It really helped. I also have to say that we were dressed somewhat nicely (dressy casual)which affected the way we were "handled" by sales staff at some of the nicer places we went. The shop will provide bras and shoes to try, but if you've got your own or are a tough size, bring them along. I'd take a strapless bra, even if you plan on getting capped sleeves. Have fun!!!

Samantha1414

Married: 05/30/2009
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Posted On: Aug 07, 2008 at 11:04 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Thank you all so much for such great advice! I'll take into consideration everything that everyone said, my mom and I are going together and are making a little day out of it to break up me being nervous or stressed. I'm a little more excited now about sunday. thanks again!

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