Me and mr. Pom live on the East Coast and my parents and brother live on the West. I really don’t think about it much, until someone brings it up. In this case the nice lady who called me to remind me about the event Crate & Barrel is holding for engaged couples. Mr.Pom is out of the country so I was totally planning on going by myself. No big deal.
The lady on the other side of the phone said, oh, well if he’s gone you can bring your mom or friend. Unfortunatelly all of my friends and bridesmaids don’t live in the same state or have babies which is perfectly fine. I’m sure I could ask a baby less friend, I’d have to think about who that might be, but I never want to inconvenience anyone. I’m one of those people who always feels bad or is shy when someone does something nice…take for example my bachelorette, I kept trying to give people money because I felt bad that people were paying for me, until one of my bridemaids took my money away from me so I would stop.
Anywho, so I had to kindly tell the lady, that it’s great that I could bring someone but I was pretty certain I would be coming along. And no, my mom won’t be able to make it. I just felt so sad and pathetic when all along I was so excited for the event.
How are you gals getting through some of the wedding moodswings?