Beginning with a lesson in the art of RomantaTherapy—creative ways to set the scene for an incredible night (or morning, or afternoon!) of sexual pleasure—The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex shares a delicious variety of tantalizing moves, tricks, and sensual enhancements from the mild to the wild. With tastefully explicit, step-by-step, how-tos for steamy foreplay, intercourse, and more, this ultimate pleasure handbook offers innovative sex positions, tips for sweetening oral sex, and the keys to stronger, longer, more frequent orgasms. It also invites you to explore the world of Passion Parties products—from lotions and potions, to safe and sexy toys that will bring further bedroom bliss.

Self Pleasure

Taking the time to explore your own body, regardless of your age or sexual experience, helps you discover your sensual likes and dislikes and achieve orgasm more easily. Self-pleasure is a very healthy thing for all. Knowing where you like to be touched, and what effect that location has on you, shows you how to teach your partner where to focus his attention. Self-pleasure isn’t about replacing your partner; it’s about developing your relationship so you both can enjoy sex to the fullest. It also teaches you to be more comfortable with your body.

A big misconception about self-pleasuring is that it solely involves your finger(s) and your clitoris. But self-pleasuring is about connecting to and understanding your own body. Don’t limit yourself and exclude the other sensual regions of your body like your breasts, nipples, stomach, thighs and buttocks. Explore your body, first with your hands, and remember the places that tingled at your touch.



Rev Up Your Fantasy Engine

Are your fantasies feeling tired and lifeless? Do what artists do when they need to "prime the pump:" Open yourself to all possible sources of inspiration. Read erotica, and imagine yourself as one of (or all) of the characters. Scan the photo layouts in adult magazines. Check out the Letters to Penthouse book series. Thumb through sex advice books. Rent erotic movies. When you see a handsome stranger, make up a daydream involving him.
Got a tried-and-true fantasy? Why not arouse yourself in a new way by writing it down, elaborating, and embellishing as you see fit? (You may end up having to type with one hand.) Learn more about your fantasy style from books like In the Garden of Desire by Wendy Maltz and Suzie Boss, or Jack Morin’s The Erotic Mind.
It pays to keep your erotic imagination humming: Researchers have found that some women, especially ones who are already easily orgasmic, can climax through fantasies or dreams alone. And a study in the Journal of Sex Research found that for some people, fantasies make the difference between achieving an orgasm or not. But if you find you don’t need fantasies to enjoy sex, that’s perfectly okay. Fantasizing isn’t a requirement for sexual ecstasy, but it can be a lot of good, clean fun.