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My name is Heather Kotok. I have been performing marriage ceremonies for 8 years. All my ceremonies are created originally for each of my couples uniqueness.
Often my ceremonies include a lei exchange, a moment of silence, a blessing, intentions, a reading or song, a flower ceremony, another reading, vows, ring ceremony, pronouncement, the kiss and a blessing. We can create as simple or elaborate ceremony as you both wish.
A simple finger style all original acoustic guitar usually accompanies the ceremony adjusting the level of playing to compliment the ceremony usually stopping completely for the vows.
I am happy to talk with you about your wedding ceremony. Please call for a complimentary consultation.
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I have had the pleasure of getting to know Heather Kotoks through My Heart is Yours Ministy, and she has the ability and desire to make your day one that your guests will compliment for years to come.
Heather of Maui Officiate has a true gift with all couples providing a personal and touching ceremony that will last for a lifetime! Her attention to detail, intuition and organization gives all couples the confidence that their special day is in the right hands! Aloha and welcome to Hawaii! Heather is your personal tour guide to Paradise!
Aloha to Heather and her wonderful organic ceremonies! I know Heather through our many on-line connections and groups. She is wonderful, caring and very interested in keeping your ceremony organic and green. I love Heather for her generous nature and loving ceremonies. Thanks for keeping one with nature. If you live in the Washington area, choose Heather!
Experienced and ready to create a personal ceremony for you. Live in Hawaii or vacationing there and want to be married to that special someone? Heather is the one to call!
I have been in contact with Heather through My Heart is Yours Ministry and other officiant organizations. I've found her to be energetic, positive and open-minded and am happy to endorse her and her services!
Frequently Asked Questions for Officiant
What officiant services do you provide?
Interfaith Ceremony, Non-religious Ceremony, Single Religion Ceremony
What religious affiliations do you serve?
Baha'i Faith, Buddhist, Christian (no denomination), Christian - Baptist, Christian - Catholic, Christian - Episcopalian, Christian - Lutheran, Christian - Methodist, Christian - Mormon, Christian - Orthodox, Christian - Presbyterian, Christian - Quaker, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim, Shinto
Can you accommodate the hearing impaired?
Yes
Additional Questions and Answers
Officiant Details
Are you willing to perform a ceremony at a non-religious site? All of our ceremony sites are sacred whether religious locations, private estates, beaches and waterfalls.
Are you flexible in the wording used throughout the ceremony including the vows? Each ceremony is unique for each couples ceremony with as much input as the couple chooses to put forth
Do you allow the couple to write their own vows, if desired? Our officients write and prepare the whole ceremony with as little or as much input from the couple as the couples wish.
Do you have a list of readings pre-selected, from which the couple must choose? I have reading they can choose from but not required you can choose your own reading, have a song or insrumentation or whatever you choose. Our ceremonies are designed to meet the couples wished or their wedding day...
Do you require that pre-maritial counseling be done? We do not require premarital counseling but do offer wonderful councelers if the couple desires the councel. I highly reconmend Dr. Lew Abrams 808 283 8057.
Are you willing to perform pre-ceremony rehearsals? Pre Ceremony Rehearsals are a fun way to orchestrate a larger wedding and a time for the bride and groom to give their gifts to their attendants. The groom typically arranges the rehearsals from setting up the time with the Officiant to booking any vendors for the rehearsal
Tips and Advice
The vows can be created by myself or simply given to me by the couple getting married to read and have them repeat.
Sample Vows
Please repeat after me…
My dearest Love, you warm my heart and soul. The soft touch of your hand brings me to the place of recognizing how deep our love is. As our union is blessed for the moments we have shared, now extending blessings as we move forward into marriage. I ask for our union to guide us through life together. To be a reminder of the love that I feel for you and help us to live our life joyfully and happily for the moments that follow. In remembrance of my devoted adoration for you as I rise each day and go to sleep each night. I promise to reflect the beauty of our love and receive the commitment of our union with honor. May grace, kindness and endurance be ever present in our journey of togetherness. I gift myself to you my Love, as your ever loving mate.
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